Judgmental & Condescending

“You are my biggest critic, you know”

“Yes. You are so judgemental & condescending.”

Heh.

Okay… I am guilty of both fucking crimes. At least I admit it.

First of all, just by the virtue of my husband telling me that I am judgmental, that would be make him judging me too, right? I mean, I do find it a thin line between ‘expressing opinons’ and ‘being judgemental’. Everyone has an opinon about something nowadays.

Secondly, I have been in the recruitment business for 17-fucking-years. The notion of me talking to strangers everyday and within 20 minutes I have to talk ’bout them to my clients as if they were my bffs, try doing that for so long, it can make one judgmental. I remember back in the days, after interviewing a candidate, I would have to fill up a form and write a short assessment about them.

“Speaks okay-okay English. Dresses well but hair is a bit ruffy. Experienced in full set of accounts. Looking for MNC environment. Friendly but could be a little cocky too. Can be placed.”

All that in 20 mins with the fella.

Bimbo

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