Screamed at by my manager in public for a mistake that I have made without proper training.
Asked to perform overtime after hours, on my off days, rest days and even public holidays without extra pay.
Pressured to close more sales to cover another department’s shortages and do extra work to compensate for a colleague’s incompetence.
Told to prioritise work over my well-being and family.
Overlooked for promotions due to favouritism (clearly not in my favour).
Paid less than new joiners with less experience than I have.
Demoted – TWICE!
So, believe me, I understand how you feel.
For the first 15 years of my career, I victimised myself, feeling helpless facing these dugaans. But I learned that self-victimisation got me nowhere. Instead, I took charge of my career, becoming more proactive in changing and fixing the problems. It was far more productive and made me a happier person.
Remember, you have the choice to change your story. Take control and steer your career in the direction you want it to go.
You’ve got this!
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