Tutu Ku

At the end of the day, we just need to remember this. Be authentic and do the right thing, then everything else will fall into place, right? So, go have that tattoo. Go wear that fancy cocktail tea party headband on Fridays. Go dance and jiggle fats in TikTok videos. Be gay. Be jolly. Be … Read more

I was Form 4. Kids being kids, we knew that day the chapter we were going to study was about sex. And I remember when the teacher walked in, especially the boys, we were all giggling and teased the teacher. She walked into the classroom and told us to go read the chapter ourselves. If … Read more

After I said, “Next!”, a viewer suggested ‘manners’ and another one suggested ‘be humble’. I laughed because I explained to them in order for me to tell my child to embody those qualities, I must have manners and be humble, first. Which both I am struggling with, honestly. Because we cannot tell somebody to embody … Read more

One of the many reasons I can focus on my career well is because my mum is taking care of my son very well. So, I can stay focus at work and not having to worry. So truly, to all you homemakers rocking out there, sacrificing yourself to make sure everything at home is in … Read more

I remember when I celebrated my 100th day anniversary, a friend left me a comment. She asked, “What’s next?” At that point of time, I really didn’t know what to answer. Just keep going, I supposed and let’s see what will come next. Today, today is my 3rd Year Anniversary on my daily original contents … Read more

Yes, constructive feedback is important too. But sometimes, it’s just eeee eeee eeee eeee! Because I do care. Things people say do bother me because I care. So it does hurt a nerve here too. It’s a 2-way street after all. But like all things in life, we fall down, we get back up and … Read more

“Why do Malaysians hate the trans community more than any other community?” Last night during my Live session in TikTok, a young man asked me that question. I was actually dumbfounded with that question. I do find it shocking, really, that in this day and age, the society can be still so myopic when it … Read more

Actually, I’ve also learnt this is not limited at home. At work, bosses will have their favourites too. It’s true, we always do. In fact, I was/am also some of my bosses favourite. It does feel nice. However for me, it’s hard work. To earn such affection is not easy, you know. Anyhoo, I don’t … Read more

“This is your space. This chat is just for you… with you. Use it for drafts, send files to yourself, or get to know chat features a little better.” Did you get this message when you opened your Microsoft Teams lately? I found it so amusing for I am one of those who talks to … Read more

The other day I had a conversation with my husband about me going Live. I told him it’s really hard. I’m conscious with how I look, especially my eye bags since I am sleeping lesser now. I’m conscious with all my fillers in my speech. I’m conscious with my terrible grammar and vocabulary. Because I … Read more