Tutu Ku

I saw this video on Twitter. I feel most days I am like that upside down turtle. As I was watching the video, I was thinking about all the people who had helped me to turn around. People who had saved me from drowning. Family. Friends. Colleagues. Foes even. Thank you. Bimbo

A friend asked, “Are you into feng shui?” Not really. But I can be superstitious. Like, I knock on wood 3 times to ward off bad luck. And I don’t place my IC or any namecard upside down. Also I bite on my new shoes so they won’t bite me back. Because I am a … Read more

“Who is more important? The child or me?” “Who do you think?” “Me.” “If you are not well, it will psychologically effect the child in the long run.” “So, it should be me first, right?” “Yes la!” ——————-(.y.)———————– Honestly, this is a super bitter subject for me. I do care and love my kid. Very … Read more

I was chatting with a friend about the 1993 movie Schindler’s List. I described a scene to him. A Jewish woman who was an engineer, against the SS guard’s command, approached the Commander at the construction site. She explained that there was a problem with how the barracks base was constructed. If they didn’t tear … Read more

The other day I had an interesting conversation with a friend about perspectives. He said, “Nothing is the truth, only perspectives.” It reminded me that old story about 3 blind men who were touching the elephant. Is the elephant hard and smooth? Is the elephant soft and flat? Or is the elephant round and long? … Read more

Last night, I had some quality time with 2 of my oldest friends from primary school. When Penny smiled & laughed, I saw the crow feet at the corner of her eye. With my fetish with wrinkles, I couldn’t help it & told her, “Your crow feet wrinkles are so charming.” Then when I looked … Read more

“I didn’t know sports bra so mahal gila! And the shorts too!” “Depends on the brand. Chap ayam one is much cheaper.” “Darling, I don’t do chap ayam.” “Can tell.” “Thank you.” —————–(oyo)——————- I am not always snobbish like that, you know. I still remember the days when I had to think over again if … Read more

I’ve made a lot of mistakes in my life. Some of the gravest mistakes I’ve made were the same mistakes made over and over again. Once bitten, twice shy, they say. But the third? I find it stupid. And many times I did stupid over and again. When I do come to my senses how … Read more

“Am I stubborn?” “Yes, you are.” “How can you say that?! I am not stubborn!!” “Well, yes you are. Like now, so stubborn that you can’t accept the fact that you are stubborn.” “I. Am. Not. F*cking. Stubborn!!” #Dugaan ……. Then, I read this in the internet: “Stubbornness makes us persevere. It helps us stand … Read more

A friend told me, “Don’t chase after things, it will come to you if it’s meant for you. Life is so fragile.” Then I countered, “Yes, life is fragile indeed. That is why I have to go chase after things. Especially my happiness.” Before it’s too late. Before I regret. Before I comfort myself, “Well, … Read more