Green Flags in This Woke Era

💚  Apologise properly.Not “Sorry you feel that way,” but “You’re right. I messed up. I’ll fix it.” đź’š Give feedback without trauma.Mean what you say but don’t be mean when you say it. đź’š Can take feedback without making it a therapy session.No tears. No tantrums. Just growth. đź’š Know when to STFU.Especially during people’s … Read more

How I Wished I Could Say This (But I Can’t)

“Boss, your idea is so terrible, I’m getting a toothache just listening to it.” (true story) “Boss, you say no bonus because company takde duit, but how come got budget for renovation?” (also true story) “Boss, you asked for my opinion. But when I gave it, you offended pulak. This open communication or open fire?!?!?!” … Read more

#HariKhamis: Bukan Pilihan Kita

Semalam saya tengok filem “No Other Choice” lakonan Lee Byung-hun (omg hensem giler), arahan Park Chan-wook. Cerita tentang seorang pekerja yang dah berkhidmat di kilang selama 25 tahun. Bila kilang tu upgraded dengan automasi, ramai pekerja dibuang sebab langkah penjimatan kos. Macam ramai yang senasib, dia tidak dapat cari kerja lain dengan gaji yang sama … Read more

EA Classes in Ipoh!

Come learn the Employment Act 1955 with me. It’s going to be an intimate session in Ipoh this November. Stories you’ll only hear inside my training vault. HRDC Claimable. Link to register:https://forms.gle/tQoacqwrWHZ5Vrb97 xoxoxo

“We Don’t Force Leave.”

The other day I was on a 6D5N family vacation in Vietnam, following a tour.During the trip, I befriended a lovely couple who run a small restaurant in Malacca. The wife manages the front of house.The husband manages the back of house.So I asked, “What happens when both of you are on vacation together, like … Read more

đź’ˇ How to Negotiate for a Shorter Notice

It’s very common that when we tender our resignation, bosses feel insecure.They worry that without us, the work will fall back on their plate.That’s why many reject requests to buy out the notice period or to offset it with annual leave. From my experience, what helps the most is giving your boss comfort and confidence … Read more

Dealing with Bullies

Have you been bullied?Or you are the bully without realising it? Bullying is now a crime.Watch us unpack it (literally) in this week’s episode of #BebelHR xoxoxo Link to Full Episode: https://youtu.be/oI6DrI0mmLI

đź’ˇTips to Work Faster: Corporate Edition

Over the years, I’ve picked up a few skills to speed things up at work.Here’s my list and hopefully it saves you some time too! 1. Sharpen Your Skills ⌨️• Learn how to type faster. Min 60 wpm. Speed typing is a superpower.• Get good at Excel (especially if you deal with lots of data).• … Read more

POV: Dealing with Incompetent Colleagues

What do we do?Sigh. For me, if I can, I try to step in and clean up the mess. Somehow, I enjoy fixing sh t, and it trains me to be a problem-solver. Not weird, right? Please tell me I’m not alone. Over two decades, I became so good at it that people started calling … Read more

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