Like most of you, I do worry about money. But these days I do worry less compare to my younger days. These are some the little tricks I still practice … Read more

“You are very expressive, babe,” a friend told me recently. I agree. I am. But I was not always like that. I used to be very reserved with my expressions … Read more

The other day I went to buy Toto. I gave the Indian aunty at the counter the piece of paper I wrote down the number I wanted to buy. I … Read more

12.49am last night: Dan-dan: Oi… have a last round of drinks and give it a try to shut your eyes. Let’s not die before we’re 60, ok? Me: Don’t work, … Read more

Two potential leaders. One is very capable but not very hungry to lead. One is less capable but very hungry to lead. So if we have a choice to only … Read more

Today a friend told me that his mantra is “When there is a will, there is always a way.” I agree. Then I countered him with another thought. “If a … Read more

Yesterday I was talking to a psychologist. She was telling me that she having her private practice nearby where she grew up was not a good idea because she was … Read more

Yesterday a friend was telling me he went to cut his hair. The barber is from Bangladesh. He told me that he didn’t manage to see him during CNY and … Read more

Work, I have to do it because I am responsible like that. So I do try to see it differently. More positively, actually. Because negativity doesn’t make it better. Most … Read more

Someone told me this recently, “It’s good that you can laugh at yourself.” Well, I can’t disagree with that. I have to because I am also one of those who … Read more

I recently reconnected with someone whom I had last spoken to 20 years ago. When we came out for coffee, as expected there were so much to catch up what … Read more

The other day a person was telling me that I am so impatient. Then I looked at him and asked, “Is that a good thing or a bad thing because … Read more